The Four Accords were published© in 1997 and have sold approximately 9 million copies. It has been on the New York Times bestseller list for nearly a decade. Everything we do is based on agreements we have made – agreements with ourselves, with other people, with God, with life. But the most important agreements are those we make with ourselves. In part 1 of this 2-part video, we learn about the “domestication” of man and how all the rules and values of our family and society are imposed on us by a system of punishment and reward. As young children, our true nature is to love and be happy, to explore and enjoy life; we are absolutely authentic. But then we learn to be what others think we “should” be, and because it`s not acceptable for us to be who we are, we start pretending to be what we aren`t. When we are teenagers, we have learned to judge ourselves, to punish ourselves and to reward ourselves according to agreements we have never chosen. The Four Accords help us break self-limiting agreements and replace them with agreements that bring us freedom, happiness and love. Enter your mobile phone number or email address below and we`ll send you a link to download the free Kindle app.

Then you can read Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet or computer – no Kindle device required. Ask Alexa to read your book with Audible integration or text-to-speech. Your request rate has exceeded the maximum number of requests allowed per sec second. Your access to SEC.gov is limited to 10 minutes. In part 2 of this 2-part video, we learn about the book of the law that governs our mind and the inner judge that makes us suffer because we can never measure ourselves against our “image of perfection.” All our normal tendencies are lost in the process of domestication, and we begin to look for what we have lost. We seek freedom because we are no longer free; we seek happiness because we are no longer happy; we seek beauty because we no longer believe that we are beautiful. What we are looking for is our “self”. With practice, the Four Accords help us regain our “authentic self,” and this is the greatest gift we can give ourselves. Learn more about the events, people, and locations in your book with Wikipedia integration.

. Mini hardcover book has 96 pages. The color jacket reproduces the envelope of the four original chords. Contains a dedication page “To:/From:” for your gifts. By using this website, you agree to security monitoring and auditing. For security reasons and to ensure that the public service remains accessible to users, this government computer system uses network traffic monitoring programs to identify unauthorized attempts to upload or modify information, or otherwise cause damage, including attempts to deny service to users. In The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that deprive us of joy and cause unnecessary suffering. .